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Relationship to Pleasure

Relationship to Pleasure

Leave to Come Home… I recently spent time in the desert—visiting a handful of friends and family who have made it their part time home. I noticed a shift as I entered city limits. The energy is light and joyful.…

Travel & Sex

Travel & Sex

Exploring the Netherlands’ Progressive Approach to Sex and Sexuality During my recent trip to visit a dear friend and her family in Utrecht, a charming town just 40 minutes from Amsterdam, I was struck by the inclusive, relaxed attitude toward…

Women’s Sexuality

Women’s Sexuality

Jessica came to see me for sex therapy. She doesn’t understand why she doesn’t want sex with her partner. She wants to want it, but most of the time she could go without. Our work together is not linear. Rather,…

Sensual Touch

Sensual Touch

Sensual touch is one of the most powerful forms of communication in human relationships. It transcends words, forging deep connections between partners by appealing to both emotional and physical senses. Through the act of touch, we express affection, arousal, and intimacy,…

In the Flesh vs. On the Screen

In the Flesh vs. On the Screen

In our modern, digital age, the accessibility of porn has changed how we approach sexuality in the flesh and if we prioritize humans over screens. While porn consumption is often seen as a private, harmless activity, its effects can be…

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