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Trauma is not only a psychological experience; it is also something the body remembers. Many people who have experienced trauma find that even when they understand what happened intellectually, their bodies continue to respond with anxiety, tension, shutdown, or pain. Psychiatrist and trauma researcher Dr. Bessel van der Kolk describes this clearly in The Body Keeps the Score, writing that “the body keeps the score,” holding traumatic experiences in physical sensations, nervous system patterns, and physiological responses long after the danger has passed. This understanding has reshaped how clinicians and researchers approach trauma healing, emphasizing the need to work with the body as well as the mind. Somatic healing plays a crucial role in this process, helping individuals reconnect with their bodies and release stored trauma.
How Trauma Is Stored in the Body
When trauma occurs, the nervous system automatically shifts into survival mode through fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses. If a person is unable to protect themselves or escape, the body may freeze or dissociate to survive. According to Peter Levine, founder of Somatic Experiencing®, trauma is not defined by the event itself but by what happens within the nervous system when these instinctive responses are interrupted. Levine explains that “trauma is not in the event itself, but in the nervous system.” When survival energy cannot be discharged, it becomes stored in the body, leading to symptoms such as chronic muscle tension, pain, digestive issues, hypervigilance, panic, emotional numbness, and difficulty resting or sleeping. Even years later, the body may react as if the original threat is still present.
Somatic healing techniques can help individuals process and integrate their traumatic experiences, allowing for a more holistic approach to healing.
Somatic practitioners often observe that the hips can hold significant tension related to stress and traumatic experiences. Muscles such as the psoas, which links the spine to the thighs and plays a central role in the body’s stress response, may contract protectively during periods of fear, overwhelm, or chronic threat. Over time, this protective holding can become habitual, showing up as hip pain, stiffness, or limited mobility. As this tension is gradually released through practices like gentle hip-focused yoga, somatic movement, massage, or trauma-informed therapy, emotional responses may also emerge, reflecting the body’s process of letting go of stored stress and restoring a sense of safety.
Why Talk Therapy Alone Is Often Not Enough
This understanding helps explain why talk therapy alone is sometimes insufficient for trauma recovery. While insight and meaning-making are important, trauma is often stored in implicit memory and the autonomic nervous system, operating beneath conscious awareness. Many trauma survivors (including betrayal, cultural, systemic, intergenerational, religious, and sexual) report that they logically know they are safe, yet their bodies continue to react as though they are not. As van der Kolk notes, reason alone does little to regulate the deep emotional and physiological responses shaped by trauma. Because these reactions arise from the body upward rather than the mind downward, effective trauma treatment often requires bottom-up, body-based approaches.
The Role of Somatic Therapy in Trauma Healing
Somatic therapy addresses trauma by working directly with bodily sensations, movement, breath, and nervous system regulation. Rather than focusing primarily on retelling the trauma story, somatic approaches emphasize tracking physical sensations, building safety, and gently restoring the body’s capacity to self-regulate. Peter Levine emphasizes that healing occurs through pacing and safety, not catharsis, noting that the goal is not to relive trauma but to renegotiate it. Over time, somatic therapy can help individuals feel more present in their bodies, less reactive to triggers, and more able to tolerate emotions without becoming overwhelmed.
How EMDR Helps Unlock and Process Stored Trauma
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is another effective trauma therapy that bridges cognitive and somatic healing. Traumatic memories are often stored in an unprocessed form, carrying the original emotional and physiological intensity of the experience. EMDR uses bilateral stimulation, such as eye movements or tapping, to help the brain reprocess these memories so they can be integrated into the past rather than continually reactivated in the present. During EMDR sessions, clients often experience physical shifts such as changes in breathing, muscle release, or spontaneous movement, reflecting the body’s role in releasing stored trauma and completing interrupted survival responses.
Body-Based Practices That Support Trauma Healing
In addition to therapy, many people benefit from complementary body-based practices that support nervous system regulation. Trauma-informed yoga emphasizes choice, gentle movement, and breath awareness, helping individuals rebuild a sense of safety and connection with their bodies. Somatic massage and trauma-informed bodywork focus on consent, slow pacing, and grounding touch rather than deep pressure, which can help release chronic tension while reinforcing a sense of control and safety. Acupuncture has also been shown to support parasympathetic activation, reduce stress, and improve sleep, making it a helpful adjunct for trauma recovery.
The Role of Compassion and Mindfulness in Trauma Recovery
Compassion and mindfulness play a critical role in trauma healing. Psychologist and meditation teacher Tara Brach emphasizes that healing occurs through compassionate presence rather than self-judgment. She writes that when we encounter suffering, we can either turn away or turn toward it with care. Mindfulness and self-compassion help trauma survivors stay present with bodily sensations and emotions without becoming overwhelmed, reduce shame and self-blame, and cultivate an internal sense of safety.
Healing Trauma Is About Safety, Not Forcing Release
Trauma healing is not about forcing release or reliving painful experiences. In fact, pushing the body to let go before it feels safe can be retraumatizing. Healing occurs when the nervous system feels supported, regulated, and respected. As van der Kolk reminds us, the ability to feel safe with other people is one of the most important aspects of mental health. By working with the body through somatic therapy, EMDR, and supportive practices, individuals can gradually restore regulation, connection, and resilience.
Listening to the Body’s Wisdom
If trauma responses persist despite years of insight and effort, it does not mean something is wrong. It means the nervous system adapted in order to survive. Healing begins when we listen to the body with curiosity and compassion, asking not what is wrong, but what the body needs to feel safe now. While the body may hold trauma, it also holds the capacity for profound and lasting healing.
If this resonates with you, know that you don’t have to carry it alone. I offer somatic-informed, trauma-focused therapy and am trained in EMDR, supporting people as they work through complex trauma, including betrayal, cultural and systemic trauma, intergenerational trauma, religious trauma, and sexual trauma. Healing happens at your pace, with care and respect for your nervous system. If you’re curious about what working together might look like, I invite you to reach out.

