Happiness in a Sexless Marriage
Intimacy More Broadly Defined A sexless relationship can be a deeply challenging experience, often raising questions about love, connection, and…
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Hibernation
Hibernation: A Tale of Survival and Connection When we think of hibernation, our minds often drift to bears slumbering in…
How to Heal After a Long-Term Breakup
A breakup, especially after a long-term relationship, can feel like a deep loss. It may be hard to imagine life…
Loving Your Partner with ADHD
A 2023 study revealed that approximately 15.5 million adults in the U.S. have been diagnosed with ADHD. However, many individuals,…
Goal Setting
Life gets busy, routines take over, and before you know it, you and your partner might feel a bit disconnected…
Relationship to Pleasure
Leave to Come Home… I recently spent time in the desert—visiting a handful of friends and family who have made…
The Power of Gratitude
In a retreat with Psychologist Diana Hill this spring, I did a gratitude meditation. She asked us to wander for…
Election Stress
Do you have election jitters? We are in strange times with our political system and many people I see in…
Trying to Conceive and Intimacy
Andrew and Ella decide to try for a child. Their sex life suddenly swerves to an unfamiliar path while trying…
Pillow Talk
Slowing Your Post-Erotic Roll to Savor the Afterglow Pillow talk—the intimate conversation and connection that couples share immediately after sex—plays…