Sensual Touch
Sensual touch is one of the most powerful forms of communication in human relationships. It transcends words, forging deep connections…
Best Practices for Clinicians Offering Sex Therapy with Lesbians
I came out as lesbian at age 19 and have navigated that process repeatedly for three decades. The queer community…
Normalizing
Shame is a one of the hardest and most common issues related to mental health. Feeling “wrong” or bad in…
Erectile Dysfunction
Brad was starting to avoid sex. He couldn’t count on having an erection, so his anxiety would spike at the…
In the Flesh vs. On the Screen
In our modern, digital age, the accessibility of porn has changed how we approach sexuality in the flesh and if…
Scheduled Sex
How do you prioritize what matters in your life? People have very different strategies and expectations for setting and navigating…
The Function of Sex
One of the questions I often ask my clients is why – simply why do you want to have a different or…
Porn: In Good Times or in Bad
Hot Potato Porn Porn is a loaded topic. It sits squarely between the two hats I wear professionally: sex therapist…
Book Recommendations
Embarking on a journey of self-discovery and enhancing intimacy within your relationships is a profound and empowering experience. This week,…
The Psychology of Faking It
Org*sms are not always easy to achieve—especially for women. They (mostly) require some or all of the following: focus, communication,…