The Psychology of Faking It
Org*sms are not always easy to achieve—especially for women. They (mostly) require some or all of the following: focus, communication,…
Good Vibrations
I’m currently reading Betty Dodson’s Sex for One. I am delighted by her evangelism for the pursuit of pleasure. Starting…
Handling Sexual Rejection
We’ve all been there. In fact, we’ve likely been on both sides of the no, of sexual rejection, and neither…
Female Masturbation
When I Think About You, I Touch Myself (diVINYLS) That song seemed so naughty in 1990. Because I was 13 and because…
Releasing Inertia
Remember when you first met? It was hot and heavy. You couldn’t stop having sex. You replayed all the little…
Turn Up the Volume on Your Senses
What’s your relationship to pleasure? Sounds like an easy one, right? We love to see beauty, enjoy tasty things and…
It’s Hard Feel Pleasure With All That Pressure
So, you want to have sex and some pleasure. However, the audience (of your mind) has become unruly. They are…